Wednesday, March 30, 2016

She Wants/He Wants: Faking it


How? Technically, that’s not faking.

She never has and never will…I think, hope.


Yes…but he that’s when he gets inventive.

Yes…sorta…a little.

Monday, March 28, 2016

Mistress Musella: Touch revisited

To be intimate is to be touched and to touch. It’s basically impossible to avoid. You can avoid certain areas but those tend to be the best parts to touch and to have touched.

Forget what you grew up with or heard on the school grounds, it’s time to relearn that touching is okay. In its own time and place, that is.

Don’t take what you see on screen to be how everyone wants to be touched.

Don’t take how you like to be touched as how your lover wants it.

Listen and watch your lover. Talk to your lover. Yes, talk to them – ask them and tell them.

Don’t know?

Experiment. Start slow and easy and build. Play.

Here is the one area you need to be free and give yourself permission. If someone’s judging they need to leave.

If you’re the judge – stop. The world’s hard enough on you without your help.

Be good to yourself.

Wednesday, March 23, 2016

She Wants/He Wants: Body twists, turns, and other unbendables


Sexy showers equals bathroom wall repairs and strange emergency room visits.

SHIT! My back…can’t hold. No, I’m not calling you fat and for the record that guy’s a mutant. She’s faking it, it’s a movie. Well…it’s this scene she’s faking. Oops, sorry – uhm, you can have the heating pad first.

It can be broken? How? Ouch!!! You didn’t have to show me; you could have just told me. All right, already, you won’t bounce and I’ll stop…but you liked that other thing I copied from the movie. All right, already!


Wrong entrance, move. NOW! No, not there again. MOVE AWAY. What do you mean, you can’t see? Are you calling me…?

Stop! I’m not some bloody gymnast doing the splits. Nor do I want to explain why I have a black eye, put my knees down.

How the hell am I supposed to breathe like this?


Charlie Horse! Charlie Horse!