Monday, December 21, 2015

Mistress Musella: Gifts and Giving

Mistress Musella: Gifts and Giving

There are multiple ways to give as there are gifts to give. The strongest is the gift of yourself.

Cliché as it is does not mean it is easy or readily given. It takes concentration to focus on your partner(s) and on yourself. To keep everyday life out of the moment. To not rush through the joy because there’s more to be done elsewhere. To climax and turn away for precious sleep.

Give yourself the present of being present.

The best of the holidays to you and yours and strong and loving 2016.

Friday, December 18, 2015

Friday Frolics: Sexy Gifts

Welcome to our last Friday Frolics of 2015. Thank you for joining us each week. We hope you've had fun reading and perhaps finding new authors to enjoy.

With this being the season of Santa and gift giving, I thought I would ask our Musers about sexy gifts/gift giving. Let's see what ideas they have...

Ah, sexy gifts. So many options! In my Oh Santa story The Christmas Proposal, one of the main characters have a striptease as a gift while the other gave a ring and a marriage proposal. Sexy and erotic gifts just depend on the chemistry and the comfort level the characters have with each other.

The more playful the relationship, the more kinky the gift may be. A Dom might give his/her sub a new collar and a leash. A couple desiring a threesome might engage the services of a call boy as a gift to each other. In writing erotic romance, all manner of gift is fair game. As long as it fits the character and the heat level of the relationship, nothing is off limits.

Real life? I always look forward to what Santa stuffs in my stocking...

Is it too corny to say the gift of time? Time to write. To think. Play time?

Sexy gifts can be weird. They pick something that isn't the right size or colour for you. The outfit just looks wrong your body shape. The thought and care behind it becomes a giggle and sometimes mood changer - not for the good.

I've asked for items for research - yes strictly for research. I'm telling you they're just too over the top to be anything but visual research. I swear some need user instructions.

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