Monday, May 30, 2016

Mistress Musella: Fantasies don’t mean you’re bad


Who is he? Your go to guy to reach that climax. Oh, it’s a she.

There’s a little game play going on in your head. Something to get you into the zone.

Not quite your favourite activity but you will, who’s in your head during the moment doesn’t hurt anyone.

You both have a dream-free list. Anyone mutual?

Fantasies are adult make-believes and there’s nothing wrong or bad about them.

No one needs to know who you’re thinking about. It doesn’t mean you love your partner less. In fact, these dream partners may just be who you need when you don’t want to say “no,” but your body is saying “meh.”

Don’t allow your guilt to confuse lying with fantasizing.

When you’re lying to your partner you know it because it’s about something you’re doing or are going to do.

Fantasy is the realm of not real. Possibly never going to happen. Something you might like to try, maybe, one day, perhaps.

Your heart and gut know the difference.

Go ahead and make-believe. Dream a little fun. Have a little fun. Who’s going to know?

Unless you share…dare to share?



Wednesday, May 25, 2016

She Wants/He Wants: Fantasies



HIM:

Twosome, heck threesome. You with – him! And me? Oh hell, no! What crazy fantasy is that? No other girl? You don’t expect me to…to…kiss…oh hell no.


HER:

And why not? What did you expect with you, me, and her?  Hmmm?


HIM:

Forget I mentioned it


HER:

Okay


HIM:

Uhm, since it was just a fantasy which guy were you thinking about?


HER:

You tell me first, who was she?


Monday, May 23, 2016

Mistress Musella: Are you a prude



What exactly is a prude? Just because you won’t read erotic or watch porn or need the lights off does not make you a prude.

Calling your private time ‘ministry time’ doesn’t make you a cold fish.

Mocking someone who does any of these examples, yes, I’d call you a prude.

What? You’ve filmed yourself? Had a threesome, foursome. Love toys and movie sounds excite you. All right. But you’re still a prude if you’re mocking those who don’t…or do.

However, we play and love is how we play and love. What’s good for the gander isn’t always good for the goose. If it works for me, I’m not going to say it’ll work for you.

Feathers for you; paddles for them. Whatever gets you there.

The prude is the one looking down their nose at any and every one. They agree with no one – not even the one agreeing with them.

Prudes stand alone in judgement.

Still think you’re a prude?